Conspiracy or Prophecy?

We human know only how to spoil other human. Is it a conspiracy or prophecy? Who is behind it? Why they are doing it like this? What is the purpose of it?

School & College Life

Life is what? Friends are where? Where is School & College? I some times just recall my memories. How we disturb the teachers. Some times me, Sizar, Rabi, Ayat Ullah, Salman, Mahmudul, (late) Jahangir make noise from the back of the class & disturb Kibria Sir. Some times I ask him some critical question which he can't give answer because he taught us Math but unfortunately he took the Agriculture subject. Every class I ask him what is the meaning of "Shawla" Some times we through pen ink to the back side of Kibria & Asir Uddin sir's. Life was so funny. Our one Stupid & Crazy shit teacher is Senopse Sir (Sentu Chacha) push us to go for private tuition to his house. He didn't teach us nothing. We always go only for get the english question & need to pass the exam. Now as a person I can feel what kind of shit bloody teacher he is! Another teacher is Rabi Sanial. He is a teacher with no comments. But I proudly can say I took my revenge from him. The best teacher I got from my School are Roushon Ara Madam, Eisha Madam, Lilubilkis Madam, Zoher Zahan Madam, Alpona Choudhuri Madam, Razia Madam, Ashraf Ali Sir, Khan Babu Sir, Halim Sir, Ajim Uddin Sir, Kibria Sir. Today what I am I believe because of them. They taught me the facts & real meaning of education. Some teacher I want to through Spit on them like Senose Sir (Sentu Chacha), Rabi Sanial, Shah Jamal (Maal) they are not teacher. They are the curse of the society.

MJ (Jackson) become Muslim

This is not new news. But this is a Fact. Those are very open mind & use their brian to think about ALLAH (GOD). Why & how we are here in this planet? Then most of them follow ISLAM becasue of the Proof, Facts & Beauty of Islam. Michael Jackson converted to Islam took name "Mikael"

This is called real enjoy of life

Me & my Wife

After a long time I am updating my blog. Last time I was a bachelor but now I am not. Now days it is very hard to manage time to update blog. Recently I went for a vacation for three days with my wife. I discover many interesting things on my journey. Most interesting thing I found on the journey is mobile. Some people don't know how to use the mobile. I were walking beside the beach with my wife suddenly one person came & want to shoot video with us, I felt little bit crazy because my wife was with me. After finish shooting with us he shoot video randomly with others. Then he told me the mobile he used belongs to his daughter. He bought the new mobile & want to see the video in the TV from the mobile. It is really a different kind of feeling for him. Because the device is totally new & expensive for him. It is not a mobile for him it is one kind of love for his family & for the new mobile.

I discover the wonders of the ALLAH (ONE GOD). Every day at the dusk I sit with my wife & feel the sunset. It is really a wonderful view which makes our mind totally relax & comfort.

My trip was for only two days three night. Second day I went to the sea with my wife for swim & fun in the sea. I asked my wife to do Hizab properly before going out from the hotel room. So we went to the sea for swim & bathe. We play in the sea around two hours then suddenly one couple called me. At the beginning I reject to see them. Then they came near to me then called me again. They are also new married couple like me. They want to swim with us because people around them are disturbing them. So I accept them to swim near to us. Later on me & my wife found that they are very modern. They are not caring for the cloths. Most of the dresses were transparent. So as a human we like to see the bad things. When me & my wife saw all the Zahali things, then we start moving from their groups. Then I realize why ALLAH advice us to do Hizab. Only reason to protect our self from bad.

The most horrible thing was the journey Coxasbazar to Dhaka. It tooks around 12 hours by bus. In the bus we found one guy bought a new mobile with MP3 player. So he turned it on very loudly all the way back to Dhaka. I felt like a mad person because of the loud crazy music. Me & my wife keepet silent because that guy newly bought the mobile & enjoying the music in the bus. Hahhahaha
Life is very funny & joyful

I AM A MARRIED PERSON NOW.

Last time I always think that getting married means get extra trouble in the neck. Getting marriage means put a Dog chain in the neck. Hahahaha. Now I believe, I was totally 100% wrong. Last time in my life I had no vision. I never think to be something. No expectation. I always thought that females mean like this & that all negative.Now, I think to see the heaven & visit the happiness, we all must need to get married. To share all the problems, happiness, feelings now I got some one. Believe me I love my wife very much. Every moment even in nanosecond I think only for her. She is like a sparking star to me. Now I am so happy that Allah provides me my wife which I always dream in my dreams. Many Many Sukur to ALLAH. By the Bless of Allah we both are very very happy. I love my wife very much. This word is very common. Every one loves his wife Hahhahahhha. But I am trying to love her with respect. Now I can think like a Man. I am no more a Bachelor. I also finish my Bachelor degree. All Bachelor things are gone from my life. Now every step I take I think 100 times. Last time I was alone. Now some one is waiting for me. I am not alone any more. Some one now care for me. Now with out her I am not perfect, a incomplete Man. Many people in the office keep telling me that I look very charming now days. Yes I am very very Sukur to Allah that I got my dream woman for me. Allah provide me the right person. Please Pray for us.

Don’t See Religion by the Eyes of the culture but actually we human have to see the Culture by the Eyes of the Religion

Some times I feels very proud to be a Muslim as a Followers of Allah & Prophet Muhammad. But some times because of the society(Humans) I feels shy as a Muslim. Now days People “See Religion by the Eyes of the culture, but actually we human have to see the Culture by the Eyes of the Religion”. Only Arabs are not Muslim. Any one who follows Islam is called Muslim. We give wrong message to our friends because we don’t have knowledge of the Islam. Some people said “If we can kill one Christian then after death 7 Angeles will wait for us”. This message is 100% wrong. But from the message what I can feel that 7 Angles are from HELL will wait for us after death, because we looks down at them & think to kill human. Because it is stated in the Quran

“Verily, you will find the strongest among men in enmity to the believers (Muslims) the Jews and those who are Al-Mushrikûn (see V.2:105), and you will find the nearest in love to the believers (Muslims) those who say: "We are Christians." That is because amongst them are priests and monks, and they are not proud. And when they (who call themselves Christians) listen to what has been sent down to the Messenger (Muhammad SAW), you see their eyes overflowing with tears because of the truth they have recognised. They say: "Our Lord! We believe; so write us down among the witnesses.” 5 :82,83

When Muslim gives opinion about Islam without reading the Quran, I feels very shy & Isolated. Islam is for All Human Kind. Islam is not only for the Muslims. It is for all man kinds. Quran always talk about Human kind. It never gives guide for one tribe like Bani Israil, Feroun or any specific tribe. Quran is for Ever till the Final Judgment Day.

“Those who believe (in the Oneness of Allâh - Islâmic Monotheism), and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allâh, Verily, in the remembrance of Allâh do hearts find rest.” 13:28

Emotions

Some times we human can’t control our emotions. After a long time I saw some one is crying in front of me. When I saw the person crying I feels like my younger sister is crying in front of me. She cries like my sister. After that my day become totally slow. All the time her face came to my mind “A sister is crying” I don’t know why I can’t digest when people cry in front of me. All my emotions come out. All my bad memories pop out. Still now I am typing my blog but I am mentally upset. That cries remind me my young sister Eppi. We human are full of emotions.

Halal Pork So Tasty. Lets try ..................

Now days the Halal things become Harm & Haram things become Halal by the society. Telling truth & doing good become totally Haram now days. Haram is eating Pork, drinking alcohol & Adultery. Now we got new Halal Pork in the market. Lets go & taste the dirty Hell. I like the word Pasar & The hot sexy pig in the picture. Product from Australia & Supported by Singapore Halal Committee ( Pure Stupid Human). Haram can’t be Halal. They have no knowledge about it. It is stated in the Quran clearly

“He has forbidden you only the Maytatah (dead animals), and blood, and the flesh of swine, and that which is slaughtered as a scrifice for others than Allâh (or has been slaughtered for idols, etc., on which Allâh's Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering). But if one is forced by necessity without wilful disobedience nor transgressing due limits, then there is no sin on him. Truly, Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” Surah: 2 Aya: 173

Stupid Discussion

Today I was talking with some of my country brothers. All guys so we start talking stupid but very interesting. As a South Asian if we marry with the Japanese, then the children will come from the mothers’ womb with an electronic Robot. If Chinese then baby will come up with Husu & Sord from mothers womb. If Malaysian then baby will come up with Broken Proton Wira car, if Korean then the baby will come on hand eating dog BBQ, if Indonesian then baby will come with illegal passport, if Australian then baby will come with on hand drinking Foster Beer, If India then come as a dirty politician, if Pakistan then come with a Bomb from mothers womb, if Afgan then come up with AK47 & start shooting the family, If Arab then come with a box of money & at last we ask each other if our wife is from our country ( Bangladeshi ) then? All make fun & said “ Baby will come with illegal passport & act like Sharuk Khan” We all laugh like hell……………….

Parents

Today the status I got only because of my parents.

Do we really focus what they want?

Do we respect them the way we should?

The way they provide all to us do we realize those?

Some times just think how selfish I am. Just think about my self. How to get name & status in the society. But we forgot what our parent’s advice us to follow. Always give advice we just make the ear open from one side & leave the advice from another ear.

Some times I just think do we really respect our parents?

The way they trust us & provide all the belongings till now do we preserve it?

Now days jut thinking & thinkng….. I think I need to cry & ask forgiveness from ALLAH (GOD).

The way my Mother love me.

The way my Father love me.

The way my sister love me.

The way I love them is it same? I am selfish. I always go for my better, never think for their better.

Some Crazy Time

These are my brothers. One comes from South East Asia & another from Ice Land.

This is my brother Reza. I ask him who are you? He replied “I am the man of the fortune. I don’t know my future but I am trying to build my future. But Allah is with me. Don’t mess with me”

This is my brother Sun Java. I ask him who are you? He replied “I am the man of the Iceland. I don’t know my future but I am trying to build. But Allah is with me. I am trying to sleep less now days, feels very cold”

I stand in the Bus stand & took the interview of my brothers. Life becomes very short now. No time to enjoy for my self. Always busy with this & that. Some times I just think when I will enjoy for my self?

God give us brain to think & choose the right thing. The way the engineer design the buildings, they choose the right decision that’s why they manage to build the building. Same with our life. We try to get the right path & follow the right track of Islam only then we can build our life like the buildings.

My back is my future. Hehehhe. I mean the Books. Some times I hate but most of the time I like to read the book. It is my source of knowledge.

I like the culture & tradition of the Chinese, Because I am not a racist. I want to build my house like this way.

Can feel the Chinese New Year.

Me & my brother getting the wind which we can’t get from the room. We feels like one word “freedom”.

This is the symbol of brother hood. If I can go to Heaven I will ask Allah to give Reza as my brother. Because I don’t have any blood brother.

Some times just think "I am dark or the night is darker" Who is darker more?

The graveyard will be more dark than this pic. Some times I think what I will do alone in the dark close graveyard? So scary for me when I think about it.

Racism

I am a human made of flesh & blood like you but the problem is the human nature. The problem with racism start from Devil (Eblis). Devil don’t want to respect Human (us). So he starts the Racism. Some times we human start follow Devil. We some times do racism by color, face, county, state, dress. Some times our friends influence us to follow & think their way. Now days I become so strict about Racism. I stop mixing with some of my friends who got race problem. Racism is totally Haram in Islam. As a Muslim we believe in only one race called Human. We got another race called Beast. But my race is Human. I am black but I got blood & flesh like you. I eat & go to toilet like you only difference is name & way of thinking. Be careful from your friends who are racist. If you follow racism you will become Eblis (DEVIL). The spoiler of human kind. So I want to protect my race. So I am not racist. Who you are?

Who create this nature?

Some times my friends ask me this universe run by its natural way. So no GOD (ALLAH) in this universe. So for me I want to ask them a simple question? If the nature is run by the natural system, then why one town is cold & another town is hot climate in same country? If the nature is run by the natural way then all the countries & climates must be same. Why difference place to place. This is the creation of GOD. Who show us his mighty power that HE is the one only one who create all.

Who is Pumper & Jumper?

Where is the J/P per?

Who is Tuff & Puff?

Some one insult me very much about this part of the picture. So I delete it. Life is like this. No one is close to any one only people know how to deal their own job.

Keep Promise.

I give my word to my father that I will not cut my hair. I will make my hair long. Now I looks like a crazy person. My hairs are long but not are proper fashion. But I can’t cut my hair. I have to make my father happy.

Who Looks Hot & Attractive now days?

For me when I see any one who looks very clean & proper dress female I called Hot & attractive. Does they looks Ugly or not fashionable? They look more hot & fashionable than last time. They look very cool & sporty now. Reason proper dress.

WHY Cover body & mind?

Let us scrutinize the required important matters for both sexes in order to specify the difference in responsibility between them concerning this framework of Islamic hijab.

Both man and woman are responsible according to the following verse of the Holy Qur'an:

"Say to the believing men that they cast dawn their looks and guard their private parts; that is purer for them; surely Allah is Aware of what they do. And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks and guard their private parts and not display their ornaments except what appears there of, and let them wear their head-coverings over their bosoms, and not display their or name except to their husbands..."

Holy Qur'an (24:30-31)

The great jurisprudents (fuqaha) have cited explanations for these edicts:

A. A woman must cover her body and hair from the sight of non-mahram man.

B. It is unlawful for a man to look at the body and hair of a non-mahram woman with the exception of her face and hands. It is also unlawful for a man to look her hair and this verdict is applied on a woman concerning looking at men other than her father, son, uncle, grandfather , brother and those related to them.

C. It is forbidden for a man to look at the details of the face of a non-mahram women, or her hands with sexual desire and vice versa.

D. It is lawful for a man who wants to marry a woman to look at her in order to be acquainted with her physical qualities and vice versa.

E. It is lawful for both a man and woman to look at the body of their mahrams (except for the genital region) so long as it is not with sexual desire, but to look with sexual desire, is forbidden (haram) whether they are mahram or not.

F. It is obligatory for a woman to cover her body and hair from the sight of a non-mahram men (i.e., those with whom she is legally allowed to marry).

G. It is unlawful for a man to be alone with a non-mahram woman in a place where nobody else can enter if they fear that they may commit haram acts; but there is no objection for a man to be alone with a non-mahram woman when other are not prohibited from entering the place, even if the other are a mature rational child or in the state of security from committing corruption.

H. It is unlawful for a non-mahram man to touch a non-mahram woman nor a non-mahrammahram man such as shaking hands and so forth. woman may touch a non-

I. If there is a necessity for a man to touch a woman, and vice versa, such as medical cure or saving a drowning person, and there is no a female doctor for the woman or a male doctor for man, it is lawful for both sides to touch or look at the other side for tests, cure or the like.

J. It is lawful for non-mahram men to hear the voice of non-mahram women on condition that hearing should not be with sexual desire or as a cause for committing haram acts and it is permitted for a woman to make her voice heard through discourse or address by a non-mahramharam for a woman to talk to men in an excited and agitating manner. man on condition that her voice should not mislead or seduce listeners, because it is

K It is recommended for a woman to keep her beauty and elegance for her husband because attractiveness and beauty represent an important side in the life of woman and an essential source among the sources of the happiness of matrimonial life.

L. It is forbidden for a woman to imitate men (by dress, actions or behavior) and vice versa.

M. It is forbidden for a woman to perfume herself and go outside her home, i.e. it is forbidden that her perfume is noticed by non-mahram men while passing among them or mixing with them.

If we examine carefully these legal responsibilities which fall under the frame of Islamic hijab, we will find that both men and women share the task of responsibility regarding this rule, with the specification concerning women in covering their body. This shows strongly that Islam is aspires to establish clean relations between the two sexes; spread purity and dignity among people; and safeguard the society with healthy relations. It is not among its intentions to disgrace a woman's dignity among people or prevent her from performing her role in life as it is clear through the above mentioned laws concerning Islamic hijab.

If we want to judge strictly the matter of covering woman's body and we have said it is correct to say that both men and women hold the same task in the general framework of Islamic hijab, the question comes: Why a woman alone bear the burden of covering her body and without man to do so?

The fact, which no fair-minded person can doubt, is that the reason for the specification of covering a woman's body alone relates to her sentimental and physical qualities. Because the temptation side of woman is much stronger than a man; she has the competent side for sensibility; and she has instinctive tendencies for showing herself off. Thus, ornaments and beautification are among her first specifications. If they are unrestricted, she may cause, knowingly or unknowingly, and innocent person to commit a haram act, thought or deed.

This natural characteristic of woman and which makes her more able to attract, tempt and fascinate man towards herself, is the main reason Islam tackles this point through hijab. Therefore, it is not normal to ask a man to cover his body like her; whereas man in general does not possess these specific characteristics, nor is he naturally prone to decorate and beautify himself in order to draw attention of woman.
Still, Islam does require a man to dress in an appropriate manner so as not to expose unnecessary parts of his body.

On the subject of attraction, two sure things exists, one in a woman and one in a man. That which exists within a woman is the desire to show herself off, it is a part of her nature. That which exists in a man is an inclination towards looking, not just looking but flirting and receiving pleasure from it. Both of these things exist. Will Durant says that there is nothing in the world more firm and more perservering than a man's desire to look at a woman.

It is also clear that men and women are sexually stimulated in different ways. A woman, being a naturally sensitive and tender-hearted creature, requires touching and tactile movements in order to stimulate her. A man, on the other hand, is a much coarseer creature, tough and virile with a strong imagination. He can be stimulated by a mere look. A woman covers herself to keep from showing off her body and the man cannot see anything which will stimulate him sexually. How clever Islam is to adopt hijab in society! So it completely conforms with the innate natures of woman!

In accordance with this reality of attraction, we see that Islam also forbids acts such as sodomy among men and lesbianism among women because each of the two decrees has its own subject and background like other legal decrees which rely on certain backgrounds necessary for them.

These are the true centers which addresses in order to build this positive edict; the blessed Islamic hijab.

We hope that a perfect clarity is made concerning the difference between the hijab adopted by Jahiliyah civilization in its dealing with woman and the hijab adopted by Islam as a protective shield for woman against aggression and attacks against her dignity by the followers of sick inclinations.

What remains for us is to specify the central motives upon which Islam depended in legislating the law of a modern dress according to the limits of the Merciful Allah on His servants.

For the sake of clarifying the central motives without expatiation, we mention the following points:

First, regarding the relation between man and woman, two theories are suggested:

Theory one allows that man may sexually enjoy any woman in the society - this has nothing to do with adultery.

Theory two restricts man's right for enjoyment to the women with whom he has a legal and lawful matrimonial relation, and without which it is unlawful for him to take her for enjoyment sexually.

The first theory is the one practised today by European man-made civilization.

The second theory is the theory of Islam regarding the relation between man and woman.

This is the essence of the matter from which other details are derived. All man's behavior towards woman is derived from the first theory which relates to his sexual enjoyment of women by participating in parties, gatherings with other than his wife/wives and the illegal mixing of the two sexes, and imposing the state of adornment on women and its publicity in society and other affairs related to it.

Concerning the Islamic theory, the following points are divided:

By the act of covering woman's body, except the two hands and face, from the eyes and minds of men, other than her household, and not spending time in idle talk and walking with men and the like, as well as the prohibition of complete privacy with a man other than her household and other affairs related to Islamic jurisprudence, the Islamic concept concerning the natural relation between man and woman is a protection and safeguard against indecency and corruption.

If we take into consideration the nature of the two opinions and their results. surely we will come to the conclusion that Islam is greatly covetous concerning the dignity of woman and her respectability, purity and honor with the caution of not changing her to a salable ill-used commodity for man in society.

Therefore, Islam is covetous for fixing and organizing sexual relations and then strives towards closing the means used by those evil-minded individuals for exploiting woman and achieving their enjoyment through her as they wish.

Then the Jahiliyah theory being old or new, desires to set free abandonment of these principles for the sake of men.

The problem with this outlook is based on the sake of man and his interest even it seems that some profits are achieved for woman!!

If we also take into consideration the size of profits and gains which men achieve sexually and economically under this theory, we will find that the phenomenon of harem and the act of exploiting woman practised in the period of Jahiliyah are the same which are practised today in the name of an attractive guise that insults women. The new limitation which is used by modern Jahiliyah in the hands of women is different from the old one only in its covering and outside appearance. It remains a fetter to bind her hands, forbid freedom, and confiscate her will. So man ha made woman a captive and slave by using different means for achieving man's aims through trading, brothels, cinemas, television and radio, newspapers, and fashion.

Various masses of women began to contemplate what they suffered under European civilization and there are a few just men who raise their voices against the miserable tragedies of woman are subjected to in Europe under the shadow of exploitation practiced by men.

Here are some examples showing man's exploitation of woman and the miserable results:

In Britain, 9 out of 12 girls - below 20 years of age - are subjected to rape and kidnapping. The security forces were able to catch 13% of the criminals. The percentage of crimes increased by 84% in recent years; whereas juvenile crimes increased by fivefold during the first half of 1975.[15]

An Italian newspaper Omiga disclosed the following exciting facts concerning the crimes committed in its country:

"In fact, an Italian woman fears leaving her home in order not to expose her dignity to the mad young men who wander the roads and streets and those who have no work except attacking women and girls and kidnapping them with the aim of robbery or sexual abuse...surely a woman refuses to accept any honorable work which forces her to return home at night so as not to expose her dignity and life to danger."[16]

In another report disclosing the woman tragedy under the materialistic culture, the American Association for Family Services says:

"The disintegration of the family, which has reached an epidemic stage, tops the list of social problems. Every year more than one million persons are separated or divorced, which is sevenfold higher in percentage compared with that of a century ago.

"The number of illegitimate children increased three times compared to 1938, and each year 4 million illegitimate births are registered in the U.S.A. Regarding the problem of the corruption of the youth, which has a close relation with divorce, statistics doubled three times more than those of 1940."

Another report says:

"The U.S. Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) reports that in murder cases within families, the husbands are mostly the murderers of their wives; and in 15% of family crimes the children are the victims of their parents."

According to recent statistics released by UNESCO, "60% of the housewives in the U.S.A. and Europe feel discontented, disappointed, and miserable."[17]

Dr. Homer, a Swede, when asked by the United Nations to study the status of women in Arab countries in 1975, announced:

"It is the Swedish woman who should demand her freedom, as the woman in the Arab countries has already reached the peak of her freedom under Islam." She added: "the Swedish woman tries these days to have this year announced as 'The International Year of the Woman,' and then declare another year for the man, so that he may extract his rights from the women."

Dr. Homer continues in her report by saying: "25% of Swedish women suffer from psychological and nervous sicknesses, and 40% of Sweden's income is spent on these diseases caused by the so-called freedom which the Swedish woman attained and which she is practising. In fact, the tragedy of the Swedish woman is this very permissiveness which has taken her to the edge of such a terrifying and perilous precipice."[18]

The breakdown of family stability in Britain which has dramatically increased the number of unmarried mothers, of unmarried people living together and people living alone, is much to blame for these social ills. According to figures published by the British Government on Jan. 14, 1988, the percentage of illegitimate births has soared from 4% in the 1950s to 21% of all births in 1986, with the exception of Denmark with 43%, Britain has the highest rate in Europe.

The statistics of social trends confirm that Britain has the highest divorce rate in Europe and nearly twice the rate of France and West Germany.

Between 1979 and 1985, it was found that the proportion of people cohabiting without marriage nearly doubled. Some 15% of all single women between the age of 18 and 49, including many divorced, were illicitly cohabiting in 1985.

The breakdown in family life has also seen a rapid rise in the number of people living alone. Nearly 25% of all households contained only one person in 1986 compared with an average 10 persons in 1951!

The way the woman is treated in the western countries, which claim to be the champions of freedom and equality, is evident from the International Meeting on Women and Mass Media held in Athens, Greece, November 20, 1985.

One of the participants, Petra Kelly, a member of t he West German Parliament, bitterly complained, "In Germany they treat us (German women) like a minority, equal to invalids, the lower strata of society and like children. They portray us pornographically and consider using violence against us as natural. Every 15 minutes a woman is a victim of rape."

The Meet urged the Greek Parliament to pass legislation banning the exploitation of women on television. Though criticism of the exploitation of women is fully justified, the women of these so-called advanced countries are themselves to be blamed. If women did not consent there would be no pornographic publications, sex films and nude advertisements.

The following statistics reveal how alarming the family breakdown epidemic has become in non-Muslim societies:

France:

One in four marriages end in divorce; in cities the rate may be as high as 50%. Each year 600, 000 couples marry, 100, 000 choose to live together without marriage and 100, 000 divorce.

Canada:

Almost 40% of first marriages end in divorce. The divorce rate doubled between 1972 and 1982.

The Former Soviet Union:

About 70% of marriages break up in 10 years, according to Moskovskaya Pravda, factors involved include drunkenness, lack of money and lack of privacy.

Central and South America:

The UNESCO Courier stated that single-parent families are often created by women migrating to the cities and having children in a series of unstable unions. Due to alcohol abuse or the inability of husbands to find adequate work locally, the family breaks up and mothers and children are left in poverty.
The nations with the highest percentage of illegitimate births in the world are in the Caribbean and in Central and South America.

China:

Although China's divorce rate is lower than most western nations, it has risen 70% in 5 years. The Peiking Review reported that the divorce rate is rising dramatically.

United States:

Half the marriages will probably end in divorce. Sixty percent of the children born will spend part of their childhood in a single-parent family.

Japan:

The divorce rate has doubled in the past 20 years. Before 1947, men were allowed to evict their wives in the streets with only a short note of divorcement. Now, about 70% of divorce cases are initiated by women.

South Africa:

The Coalition of South African Women's Rights says that one out of two South African women is raped in their lifetime. This includes children and even babies and old women!

Britain:

The divorce rate in the U.K. is the highest in western Europe. Nearly 1 out of 7 single women, age 18 to 49, lives with a man she has not married.

The Hospital Today, a magazine of London, in its editorial of the April 1975 issue, published a summary of the annual report of the British Ministry of Health and Social Welfare. It says:

"...Despite the abundance of contraceptives and legalized abortion, it is noted that 86% of the children are born to unmarried mothers! There is a further serious problem. In 1973 the following cases were: 1 case of an 11-year-old pregnant girl; 6 cases of 12-year-old pregnant girls; 38 cases of 13-year-old pregnant girls; 255 cases of 14-year-old pregnant girls. There were 166, 000 cases of legal abortion during the same year, 50% of which were by unmarried women."[19]

Turning to the East, we find the decadence of society in the communist world is no less hideousness as that in the capitalist world. The magazine, Interphase in its April 1977 issue reports:

"The grave problem of the Soviet communist society is that out of every two marriages one ends in divorce in most parts of western Russia. In Moscow, for example, nearly 49% of the marriages ended in divorce after the birth of the first child. In the Mavadansk region, the precentage of divorce is as high as 72.9%. The Physicians, Conference, held at Moscow University in 1975, called for urgent measures to tackle this grave social problem, concerning the high divorce rate and the low birth rate..."[20]

It is worth noting that the said family problems are confined to the non- Islamic regions of the previous Soviet Union. In spite of the many years of communism's suppression of Islamic teachings in the Muslim lands under the Soviets, Islam still exercises its influences on the life and social conduct of the Muslims there, reducing family - instability and the exploitation of women.

These miserable tragedies, and the like, form some fruits of the modern European theory about the relation between a man and a woman.

For the sake of this, Islam takes measures to close the sources of corruption in the life of people and to work, according to its concepts, to stop the state of exploitation of women and the confiscation of their rights and to establish dignity and honor in the life of people.

Thus, Islamic Hijab is among the most prominent terms used by the Divine Authority to protect woman and make a clean human society.

We should address the current situation in many Muslim countries where Western values have replaced Islamic ones. The societies of these countries have discarded Islamic principles, including hijab, the statistics of the West have followed. Divorce, prostitution, alcohol and drug abase, and the beginnings of diseases such as AIDS are plaguing the societies who have chosen to abandon their religious edicts. Illegal relationships between boys and girls, men and women are becoming accepted or at least unrestricted.

In Muslim countries where the society and the government remain loyal to Islamic values, the occurrence of sexual crimes, indecency, divorce and other social ills are noticeably less. The family structure remains strong and healthy. The women have no fear of their environment and are relatively safe to walk through their streets and bazaars.

Which theory is better then? Should we choose unlimited release, which results in destruction and downfall, or the proposal which leads to the preservation of society and which protects both man and woman without making any difference even the supposition of the feeling of distress from some protective procedures which follow the Islamic proposal?

Through social and psychological studies of the life of Man, a true scientific fact is disclosed showing that Man enjoys two kinds of natural needs (jaw'ah) in his entity:

A. There is a number of natural needs which impose themselves spontaneously for stimulating without any external motives like the instinct for the food and the instinct for the need of showing himself to others, and love for ownership and the like.

B. Another kind of natural needs, inspite of their existence in man and their activities, is able to be stimulated if other factors and motives of stimulus are supplied from external human existence.

Among the prominent factors of these natural needs are: sexual instinct, which is motivated by dissolute poems and literature, seductive music, nudity and the like.

The upright Islam, the message of the Lord of the worlds the Creator, Who is Aware of hidden affairs, is completely cognizant of the remote factors which molded mankind, and the dangers against the movement of human life if he goes out of the natural frame prepared for it and by following it, the highest balances are achieved between these needs and natural functions in all fields of human life.

According to Islam's awareness of these facts, it desires for not stimulating these external instincts which are outside the frame of the required balance.

To be harmonious with this desire, Islam puts various social, economic and political schemes to work. These schemes provide a deep condition of agreement between these internal human motives and the demands of the individuals and the groups in which one lives.

The Islamic scheme in hijab and its fashioning the relation between man and woman aims to keep the balance between man's demands on the one side and its great desire for the purity, chastity and security of the relation between the two sexes on the other. Thus, Islamic hijab becomes a related foundation with the natural side of the human life in addition to caring for morals and purity and organizations of social life from the Islamic viewpoint.

Islam, through the modest hijab for woman, limits the nature of the relations between the two sexes in a special way. It also deals with man and woman together, limiting the responsibility for each of them towards lawful execution. Woman is separated from man in responsibility inside the framework of this scheme, only in hijab but they have the same responsibility in other duties.

This is not to say that the role of man and woman in an Islamic society are the same. They are not. A man shoulders the responsibility of maintaining the family unit by his wealth and earnings, providing food, shelter, clothing, medical care and general welfare for his household. The woman is free to earn money and has full authority over that money, but she is not required to finance her household.

A Muslim woman is responsible to care for and give proper training to her children and to provide a peaceful and harmonious environment in which the family unit may prosper and grow.

Hijab has an effect on the family unit as well as on the society. At home where hijab is respected and honoured practically, family members show kindness, helpfulness and peace towards one another. Because of the separation of the two sexes of non-mahrams, crimes of a sexual nature inside the family unit have no chance to fester as we witness all too offer in Western families where incest has grown in such propotions that it is almost taken for granted as common behavior.

Islamic hijab provides much more than mere physical cover. It is a cover that acts as a repellent of every kind of crime and vice which destroys the individual and the society.

Happy new year "2008"

Hehehehheheehehehehe Happy new year! Lets go eat & sleep. This for new year 2008.

At 1:00 AM 1-1-2008. I feel I am surrounded by the dark.

Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta'aala) said:
"They ask you (O Muhammad sal-Allaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) about the Hour, - when will be its appointed time? You have no knowledge to say anything about it, To your Lord belongs (the knowledge of) the term thereof? You (O Muhammad sal-Allaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) are only a warner for those who fear it, The Day they see it, (it will be) as if they had not tarried (in this world) except an afternoon or a morning." [An-Nazi'aat (79):42-46]
"They ask you about the Hour (Day of Resurrection): 'When will be its appointed time?' Say: 'The knowledge thereof is with my Lord (Alone). None can reveal its time but He. Heavy is its burden through the heavens and the earth. It shall not come upon you except all of a sudden.'
They ask you as if you have a good knowledge of it. Say:
'The knowledge thereof is with Allaah (Alone) but most of mankind know not.''" [Al-A'raaf (7):187]

The day I came to this world that is my birthday but I don’t know when will be my death day? The death time is unseen & unknown! Every year, the new year come & old year passes. What I am doing? Anything good for the society & for human goods? All I did for me. I am receiving new years, after 365 days. Same time I am loosing my living life. Every day, my days are detaching from my life. When my ultimate time will come up to die I will follow my LORD (ALLAH) empty hand. New year comes, every one can find me at joy party. I forgot to join to the Pray Party. There is a GOD, who creates me I forgot because of social happiness. My ultimatum day is on the way. Don’t know what I will do at the Judgment day.

My soul stuck to the dead end now. Now I blocked by the white. May be I will see the good very soon. My dark era will be covered by the white.

"The Hour has drawn near, and the moon has been cleft asunder." [Al- Qamar (54):1]. The Prophet (sal-Allaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) said, whilst pointing with his index and middle fingers, "The time of my advent and the Hour are like these two fingers." [1] In another report he said, "The Hour almost came before me." This indicates how close we are, relatively speaking, to the Hour. Allaah said: "Draws near for mankind their reckoning, while they turn away in heedlessness." [Al-Anbiyaa' 21):1]

I believe I will die very soon

Today I was thinking about death. Because I feels very tired & weak. Normally Alhumdulliah by the blessing of Allah I am healthy & wealthy.

I was wondering after death what I will take with me as good deeds?

What I did till now?

All I can count I did bad.

I saw people doing bad & didn’t stop them.

People doing Adultery I keep silent.

Some of my friends cheat others, I just keep silent.

Some of my friends make girlfriend just for sex & later on change to new one. I saw keep silent.

Some drink alcohol & encourage others to join with them, what I did? I keep silent.

Some of my friends do sex & gossip with me, I either left the place or ignore them but I didn’t stop them.

I saw my friends kiss their girlfriends & touch the secret part of the body, I was help less to stop them.

I saw my friends doing cheating in the exam I keep silent.

I saw friends share dirty movies among them I keep silent.

My friends steal things from others I keep silent.

Even some of my seniors doing very bad still I keep silent.

All the time I raise my voice all my friends ask me be a Man. For them I am not a Man. Some times I think what I am? If I am not a man & woman then what? Some thing at the middle?

This world I can’t raise my voice but after death how I will raise my voice?

In front of GOD what I will tell?

How I will hide my face from GOD?

How I will defend my self?

Who will be my protector?

All the bad things my friends did in front of me & I keep silent GOD will not forgive me. I will be the first punisher.

Because I saw & keep silent didn’t do nothing. God give us the Quran but I didn’t follow it properly. All the blames go to me.

I will not speak that time. My hands, eyes, ears, legs, nose will speak that time against me. I will not have the control of my self that time.

What I will do that time?

Now I am thinking & thinking but I am already very late. Still go time to fix or not I don’t know. Because I don’t know when I will die? Death never give advance notice that “Get ready I am coming” like in the movies.

Real life is totally different from movies. Life means peace & harmony. The way I am leading my life SEX & HARM.

The Hell keepers will be very happy after my death. I think the HELL keeper is making the fire more hotter & hotter for me. Then GOD will put me in that Fire………………..

I can’t think of it any more. I am so sinful.